Mohd Nadzrin Wahab

One of my Silat mentors, Toyer Farrath, posted this today.

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Toyer's desk on interpersonal relationships:

Be happy for people even if it does not fit with your way of thinking.

Some points:

. Try really hard to keep your opinion to yourself.
. Once it's out, you can't take it back.
. Keep biting your tongue before expressing your feelings.
. What you feel or think will show in your face and your actions.

"I'm no hypocrite", "I want to set the record straight" or "Should they get away with it?", people might say.

So, will getting it "off your chest" overcome the conflicts you're having with yourself and prevent any external discord it may cause?

Any thoughts from the real world...

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Guru Toyer is from South Africa and has mastered Silat at its deepest Islamic meanings and can articulate the pure messages and power of Syariah-guided Silat as different from typically animistic or Buddhistic silat. He is my model for what I want to do with silat here. Do add him as a friend if your interested in learning from him.

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  Mohd Rizal Hassan What does not fit your way of thinking is a sure sign that you don't know everything. So LEARN instead of rebutting.

  1 October at 09:47 · Like · 2
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  Rajinderjit Singh Well said,...everyone has an opinion but the consequence of that opinion is what we need to think about. Getting angry at someone is easy and requires no skill, its mastering one's own emotion is the test from God. :)

  1 October at 13:00 · Like · 3
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  Maria Marzuki Buddy Rajinderjit Singh, sekali sekala you post, ayat power lah :)

  1 October at 14:15 · Like · 1
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  Maria Marzuki Mohd Rizal , my debater daugthers always say "We learn best when we rebutt"! pening kepala mak ;)

  1 October at 14:17 · Like · 1
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  Mohd Rizal Hassan Ah! That's because they are listening and learning of ways to rebutt! :))

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  Maria Marzuki Exactly! :)

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